Minimalism appeals to me, because it makes me focus on what I truly love and need.
One of my favorite blogs is Zen Habits. I started reading Zen Habits for the productivity tips, but lately I’ve been fascinated with Leo’s simple guide to a minimalist life. If you were to come into my home, you’d never guess that I even think about minimalism. My home isn’t a disaster area, but it has plenty of clutter. It’s definitely well lived in.
So why does the minimalist lifestyle appeal to me? I see several benefits.
Minimalism Means Less Clutter
I have lots of clutter in my house, and I hate it. I would love to actually have a place for everything, but in order to do that, I need to get rid of a lot of stuff. I don’t have a garage, and my outside storage shed is very small. So everything I store would need to fit in one of my five closets. I have to admit, I like the thought of only owning as much stuff as I can fit comfortably in my house.
Minimalism Means Less Waste
If I bring less stuff home, I don’t have as much opportunity to waste. I really try hard not to waste anyway, but sometimes that’s hard in a cluttered home. If the refrigerator or freezer gets cluttered, I forget what I have, and sometimes the yogurt hiding behind the milk goes bad.
The same goes for clothes. If I own the minimal amount of clothing I need to get by, I’m not likely to forget about an outfit hanging at the back of the closet. I can’t count how many times that happened when my daughter was a baby. She had so many baby clothes, that I’d forget exactly what she had. Then I’d pull out an outfit, only to find that she had outgrown it already.
Minimalism Means Learning to be Content
I really believe that having an overabundance of stuff breeds discontentment. It seems that the more things a person has, the more they need. I know that’s true in my life. When I have the ability to buy more, I find that I start buying to fill some sort of unmet need in my life. By cutting down the amount of stuff I allow myself to buy, I force myself to deal with my discontentment. I need to learn to be content with what I have and find satisfaction in my relationship with God, my family life, and with who I am as a person.
Minimalism Means Really Loving What I Have
By forcing myself to cut down on the amount of stuff I own, I cut out the stuff that I’m ambivalent about. By embracing minimalism, I cut out everything but what I really love.
I remember reading Little House in the Big Woods as a child, and I remember reading about Laura and her doll, Charlotte. Laura LOVED Charlotte. I think she loved her so much because Charlotte was her only doll. Charlotte was precious. Charlotte was special. How many things do I own that I consider to be truly special? My photographs are special. Everything else? Not so much.
Though I doubt I have it in me to become truly minimalist, I am setting a goal for getting rid of stuff. Cutting my things to what I really use and love lends itself to my quest to live a more frugal life. So by the end of the year, I will go through every room in my house and get rid of what I don’t use or love. And to be really frugal, I’ll sell what I can and put it toward my debt.
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I agree 100% I am a huge proponent of less is more.
As for toys, this is confirmed when I walk in my boy’s rooms and see toys all over the place, and half of them a are broken.
Great post and for me less stuff = less stress.
That’s great! I have a hard time getting rid of books. Everything else is getting easier though.
And I think you’re on to something with your husband. I grew up without a ton, and I’ve always had a hard time getting rid of things. It took a long time for me to acknowledge that stuff doesn’t equal security.
gblguy, that’s so true. I really want to get rid of half my kids’ toys. It’s hard to do though, when they’re used to having so much.
And less stuff does = less stress.
I have two huge built in bookshelves. They take up one full wall in my living room. They were stacked with books. Books I bought, read, then put on the shelf.
At the beginning of August, I listed 90% of those books on Half.com. I sold 75% of them on there and the rest I sold at my garage sale. My shelves are clear, no more book clutter, someone else is enjoying the books I had and I have less to dust.
My dh regrets selling the books, but I don’t. They weren’t his books anyway, they were mine. I think he’s got issues with “more stuff = more security”. I think it has to do with how poor they were when he grew up.
I love(I mean LOVE)the books I kept.
Speaking of toys, I have a huge collection of stuffed animals. I thought about giving them away (they’re practically brand new, most with tags still) but I can’t seem to part with them. Maybe if I give one at a time then it won’t be much of a shock to me. That’s definitely something I got to work on.
I have really become aware of just how much ‘stuff’ I have accumulated over the years that I really don’t need. I am trying to make better use of what I already have and working on getting rid of the clutter.
Great post. We really try to be aware of this, and want to minimize the amount of toys, etc. that our son receives from us and others.
Kid stuff is the hardest stuff to control, I think. I’ve really cut back on how much I give the kids, but they’re the only grandkids on both sides of the family. It’s hard to control how much the grandparents, aunts, & uncles give them.
One thing I try to do is get my kids started with things they can collect. My son likes Thomas the Tank Engine, so that’s something the rest of the family can get him for his birthday that will add to something he already has. Less clutter that way.
The min. lifestyle has always applied to me.
From the time I started living on my own, I began paring down my things, and leaving behind all the “stuff” I’d learned to drag around with me from my parents’ example. Not that they had too much, but they did not embrace the minimalist aesthetic that appealed to me.
Their walls were filled with art, knick knacks were all over the place, the basement was filled with papers and junk. Nowadays, they too have embraced minimalism and have been downsizing and clearing out clutter more and more as well.
I like a “quiet” environment. Not a bunch of stuff on walls or around the home. I despise waste, so the less I have, the less I may end up wasting. I don’t like things sitting around going unused. I want to have what I need and what I use and nothing more.
Life is easier that way and more satisfying to me. I am working on getting rid of more things still, despite downsizing after every move, and I think I’ve moved about 11-12 times in the past 15 years.
I try to have quality items that I take very good care of rather than a bunch of items that are mostly disposable or needs to be continually replaced. In all, I find a more simple or minimalist lifestyle to be more calming, more simple, more satisfying, and usually–but not necessarily always–more environmentally friendly and cheaper as well.
I don’t know that it’s for everyone but I’m happy with my gradual move toward a more and more simply lifestyle as time goes on. I find great satisfaction and contentment from it and hope to continue to progress further and further in this direction over time. For me, making changes gradually works best.
@m- that’s really great! I like a quiet environment too, and that’s my ultimate goal!
If only our government behaved as you do, we would be so better off!! Congrats!!
What a great post! I have been thinking about how much stuff I have sitting around, too, and how much more I’d appreciate each item if I didn’t have so many things of the same type–books, video games, cookbooks, even pens! We aren’t super cluttered, yet, but I could see it happening within 2 years if we don’t start to purge things as we acquire new ones or just learn to be content with what we have.
There’s a community garage sale coming up this month that might see a lot of my excess stuff…
Good luck at your garage sale! That’s a great way to get rid of extra stuff!
Thanks for the great post. I am definitely a minimilist by nature, and a thrower-outer much to my horder husband’s dismay. But I find advantages in all the things you cited. Not to mention, we are two adults and three young kids living in a 700 sq ft house, so I have to be ruthless!
I have embraced the minimalistic lifestyle over the past 5 years and it has made a huge difference in my life. I lost a high paying job and have been unable to find another in the same pay range. I was forced to accept 1/2 of what I was used yo. I live in a smaller place now, got rid of the car payment and bought 2 cars that are 10 years old, no payments. I gave away much of my stuff to family members in need and felt good doing it. Now, I have only my key possesions, the things I truely love. And you know whats strange? Im making 1/2 the money, but Im twice as happy and content
Nice post.
The less clutter I have the better I feel. My house feels more peaceful and clean. I have bad allergies and have to make sure everything in the house is clean and dust free. Having less things to dust makes it a lot easier.
I was reading last night that we should keep our bookshelves mostly empty to encourage us to buy new books.
I pass on the books I’ve read and are happy to part with on to my neighbour for her daughter. Once she’s read them she passes them on two doors down to a lady who takes them to the pub with her for her reading circle.
I found your site through the CNN article. I really enjoyed this post. I feel like I could have written it myself. I also have no garage and find storage to be a real issue in our home. I hate the feeling of the clutter but I find it is really hard to get rid of things. I often feel wasteful if I do get rid of things. Having children has made decluttering a constant battle in our home. Thanks for the great post. It has inspired me to declutter even further.
i became a minimalist the moment my next door neighbor mentioned the term. it sounded so appealing. my wife, two kids, and i are in the process of learning what it means to truly become minimalist. thanks for the encouragment from your post.
I also admire this lifestyle, I agree that we have too much ‘stuff’ I have been trying to cut down for years now, and sometimes I feel like i am making progress, but other times I know that I am more cluttered now, than I was years before!!
-Ezra
Wow, you just hit about 10 different nails right on the head! I’ve had this nagging feeling that in order to live more green, more frugally, and more “zen”, I need to completely irradicate everything extra in my life which seems odd…live more frugally, more green by getting rid of perfectly good stuff?! But it is true, I can’t possibly keep track of my good clothes or my good edible food if I can’t find it! I’m off to purge!
Thanks!
Great Post! I was a minimalist for much of my life until I got a job that paid more than I was used to. I began collecting Ak Native art works as I was in a position to get good prices. I overdid it, & now, 1 lost job later am having to try to sell those works of art that I had become emotionally invested in. I never wanted to like “stuff” so much, it just happened, & I’m trying hard to give it up. I also have a difficult time parting with books, even though the majority of my books were gotten at thrift stores, I want to keep them. Don’t know why. I love the idea of being in a very clean & minimal environment.
You’re right and think of how much money we save by taking the the approach of minimalism. How that needless junk people buy, do we really need it? We may think we do, but after a short (very short) period of time we realize we have no use for it. We save money and the environment by not wasting things. This post is actually a great “how to” starter to teach people how we can use minimalism. Good job :)
“By embracing minimalism, I cut out everything but what I really love.” That’s my philosophy exactly.
I’m glad I found this older post; it’s a great reminder why I love simplicity. We truly do get more out of life when we have less stuff to get in the way of our experiences.
I am a true minimalist. It has taken me year to totally understand the meaning of the word but I have been one my entire life. I have raised children and in the process managed to stay a minimalist. I would have the children go through their toys in November and for each toy that they had asked Santa for they had to pick one they felt that they had outgrown. I then took the children and the toys to the children’s home in our city and they allowed the chidren to hand the toys to the needy kids. We never gave broken or old items they were just items the kids had outgrown. To this day my kids are always looking to help someone else out who is a bit down on their luck whenever they are able and it comes back to them 1,000 times over. Minimalism is a freedom ! It does not mean doing without it means having exactly what you want need and use and the top of the line, and nothing more! No extras and nothing more than what you need. This entire approach to living leads to pure contentment and a happiness that is pure radiance!
Minimalism is a new living trend. It requires living a determined life as well. Once you purge get ready to maintain, for every item you bring home have given to you as a gift, you will have to find an item that you can give up. Easier said than done. The only items brought in the home that do not apply are food, cleaning, and home maintenance light bulbs, office supplies and such. Items that get used up, the staples of the home. Often even a true minimalist will find themselves tucking an item in the back of a closet because it still has value only to forget about it and never use it again. True minimal lifestyle is freedom, it is also a challenge!
For those with stuffed animal clutter, check with churches and foster care agencies in your area. I got rid of two huge bags of stuffed animals, as well as a huge pile of large tote bags and small luggage that way.
Plus I like to think that it helped kids who came from less than ideal home lives into a slightly better one.
Great post Lynnae. On the other hand my home is a disaster area. It’s a little tough when you have seven people living under one room.
what we call minimalism to be strived for is a natural way of life for many of our brothers and sisters on this planet. I find it a daily challenge to go deeper into de-cluttering and de-consuming. I bring very little in, yet I want less and less all the time. I grew up with plenty so maybe it is easier to understand that more can be had if needed. I currently am an unemployed student so I cannot waste anything like money…it is the Pareto rule 20/80 20% of your stuff is used 80% of the time.
O boy O boy . . . this is a wonderful website for me. I come to this concept LATE in life . . . and do begin to understand the great value of minimal acquiring and lifestyle.
I do find it hard to part with family heirlooms,but when there is no one who has interest in the mementos and trinkets of a lifetime, one finds a way to agree that the Universe will make good use of them whatever they are and of whatever has value. I am reminded of the Auctioneer at the first big Jackie Kennedy Auction where ” the trappings of her life” were sold at auction. WOW~! I heard that…”TRAPPINGS” . . . that is what a lot of keeping the possessions begins to be . . . and more and more I want the independence, which comes with minimalistic living. Being freed up to do more of the undone dreams, rather than holding on those completed . . . and then not always completed by me, but by others no longer here! I won’t try to be a PURIST on the concept, but I sure am going to give it my best determination and intention, and by golly I will get back to this Website when I have scored the first goal.
Thanks for all the great insights. Good to see how not alone I am in this.~
This site inspired me to keep going with my declutterization. It is definately a transition. I’m trying to unwind habits engrained generations. My grandmother lived during the great depression, although she does not clutter she does not waste. My mother on the other hand is a clutter bug. I grew up very poor, so I think the junk was like a security thing for her. I can not avoid the “stuff” anymore! It’s out of here and I’m breaking the cycle!
Via a few fluke things in my life the past few months, I have started living a minimalist lifestyle. I plan to leave for a trip to Australia in the summer with no plans once I get there and hopefully on to other countries. It was rough getting to where I am but worth the hardships.
Currently working passive/residual forms of income so I don’t have to attend to and manage my ventures on the road. More free time to play!
Good read.
Thanks for posting
Getting rid of clutter is easier than you might think. If you can focus on a few feet of floor space a day, it’s done in no time.
where do I start its so overwhelming!!! I just dont start because I dont know where to start, I kinda a pack rat, and didnt have a lot growing up, so I tend to hold on for dear life. Help.
Glenda~ Try Messies.com It may be just what you need/want to get started. It helps me. Thanks for your honesty and sharing.
Great blog and wonderful posts by all. I have been on a de-cluttering project over the course of the last 3 years and within that time have relocated once.
It’s amazing how our possessions and the quantities are revealed when we do move.
I have always maintained that society has conditioned us to acquire an overabundance of material goods, along with the implications that we will be “secure”. That couldn’t be further from the truth. It’s also sad that we are measured individually by what we possess.
As a matter of fact, I have actually gained more from purging and decluttering:
Time not wasted looking for things.
A peace of mind. In fact, an organized mind is a peaceful one, lol.
Money saved that is not spent impulsively.
If I do move again it will be a cheaper, quicker, safer and more efficient move.
Helps the environment
Someone else is enjoying and benefiting from what I no longer need.
Freedom from chaos, clutter and confusion!
Actually, as mentioned here loving and enjoying the things I do keep more.
I will also close with the fact that having less does NOT mean that one is boring. In fact,it’s the total opposite. I can devote more time to those people and things that matter most!
Gil
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Hi Everyone,
I too am seeking simplicity in my life, getting rid of the clutter (both mental and physical) does seem to really open up life to more genuine and authentic experiances … ones that cannot be purchased in a box !
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In Florida, most of us do not have an attic for storage. None of us have a cellar. Some of us have no garage either. Some people have an extra bedroom which is their storage room. Others use a metal lawn shed. Still others pay for a storage unit so that they don’t have too much clutter around. I think if we had cellars or/and attics we would apppear to be minimalists even if we aren’t. I guess what I am saying is minalmalism is more challenging in some environments than others. Where do you put all those Christmas decorations and family memorabilia if you have no attic or cellar?
I love this post :) I am starting in my teens so I don’t have stuff to hold me down when I’m older, and living in a smalller space. I find that having less stuff does free the mind and you have more time and money to volunteer and donate, opposed to cleaning your house all the time and spending your money on useless stuff.
Just got rid of alot of my books I’ve read and the clothes that are too baggy on me now… I lost 30 pounds this year for my new years resolution. XD
I love Leo’s work and his guides are quite helpful. Minimalism is an ongoing process for me and I can honestly I am happier with much less…
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